Choose Happiness – Create It for Yourself in 3 Easy Steps

3 Easy steps to create happiness for yourself

You deserve to be happy, but there are days when it’s easy to get sucked into negativity and despair. When nothing seems to go your way. When the craziness around you starts to influence your own thoughts. When you wish you were as awesome as so and so… I have discovered a few tricks to help you create, boost, and choose happiness for yourself. Remember, happiness is a choice. When times are difficult, you can choose to find the good in even the little things to create happiness for yourself. 

3 Easy steps to create happiness for yourself. Create happiness.

Choose Happiness For an Act of Self Love For Yourself

There are a few simple strategies that you can implement today to start increasing your levels of happiness. Every day is a new opportunity for growth and today you can choose to honor your right to whole-hearted happiness. I tend to believe that we can all try to find the beauty in life, even when life seems to be very challenging. It may be difficult to learn to do this, but we can choose to see the negative or smile through life’s challenges with grace.

Choose Happiness and Let Go of Perfection

When you expect perfection, you set yourself up for disappointment. Because nobody’s perfect, and thinking you need to be is just setting yourself up for failure. Or worse, for not even starting.

On the road of self-improvement, there will be potholes, cracks in the pavement, and distractions on the sidelines. This is completely normal and natural. Judging yourself too harshly for not being perfect is a major happiness killer.

Create Happiness for Yourself by Reframing Your Thoughts

I tend to see many people with a “when-then” frame of mind. This is when someone says when I get that dream job, then I’ll be happy. When I lose 10 pounds, I will be happy. This is setting yourself up for failure. I also see the “all or nothing” mindset. Say for example, on Monday you start a new eating plan that is restrictive, and you do great. But as soon as Tuesday afternoon rolls around, you starve from such a restrictive eating plan that you stop and get a delicious pastry. Then you feel horrible, because you view that food as “bad”, so you decide to give up and binge eat for the rest of the evening. You tell yourself, I messed up already, so next Monday I will start my diet again.

There are many problems with this. The first is the restrictive eating plan, to begin with. We eat to fuel our bodies, and if done correctly, we get healthier, have more energy, and naturally, the weight will come off.

The second problem is viewing foods as “good” and “bad” foods. Lastly, is the idea that if we aren’t perfect with our eating, we should just give up and continue to eat foods we know might not make us feel good and or fuel us properly. The best thing to do is make a healthier choice during the next snack or meal. Add in extra vegetables to your dinner.

Don’t punish yourself if you didn’t eat that grilled chicken salad you planned on eating for lunch. Instead, speak to yourself the same way you would talk to your best friend, with love and grace.

Happiness is Learning to Begin Where You Are Now

When we wait for all the conditions to be perfect before we start working on a goal, it sets the tone for failure right from the beginning. This is because, with any goal setting, the conditions will never be perfect. Life is full of curveballs and obstacles daily. The key is to start. Start whenever you are, because every step toward that goal is progress. Remember that no change is too small to be effective.

Creating healthy habits and finding ways to boost your happiness is all about starting small and gradually building upon those habits. For example, say you drink several sodas a day, and your goal is to drink more water. Try replacing one soda a day with a full glass of water. This is a nonrestrictive way to implement a new healthy habit into your life, without overwhelming yourself with so many rules and changes. The key is to focus on the phrase, “Happiness is a choice”.

Consider Journaling Your Feelings to Boost Happiness

Try journaling daily on how you feel. Take note of any changes in energy levels, or maybe your persistent constipation issues are less frequent. Once you recognize how these small changes can impact your body and mind, you are more likely to keep it up. This inspires you to make other healthy changes to your current health habits.

Boost Happiness by Eating More Fermented Foods and Probiotics

Fermented foods might not seem to have much to do with happiness from the outside, but on the inside, they make a huge difference. By adding probiotic-rich foods like sauerkraut, kefir, kimchi, miso, yogurt, and kombucha into your diet, you’ll strengthen your body’s ability to produce serotonin, the happy hormone.

Serotonin is produced in large amounts in the gut, but when our gut bacteria isn’t healthy, our bodies have a hard time producing serotonin and transporting it to our brains.

The gut is often referred to as the second brain, and for good reason. A balanced probiotic-rich gut makes it easy to produce hormones that flood the brain with positive feelings. Recent studies are even looking to probiotics as a way to treat depression and anxiety! (1)

Happiness is a Choice, So Watch Your Thoughts

Thoughts are wonderful and wicked simultaneously. They can build you up or hold you back from taking action towards what you want. This is why it is key to choose happiness, rather than focus on the negative.

The only way to know what’s going on in your own head is to sit down and watch the movie that only you can see. Through the daily practice of sitting down and watching the thoughts pass through you without judgment, you can start to understand yourself better.


This is a place where massive growth happens. If you notice a lot of negative self-talk, you can consciously take action to switch it around. This one action alone, even for just a few minutes a day, can increase your happiness and decrease your stress tenfold. Remember, happiness is a choice. These simple mind shifts can help create happiness for yourself without much effort. I hope you try out one or all three simple ways to create happiness.

Let Me Know What Your Favorite Ways to Boost Your Own Happiness Are!

I hope this article about easy ways to create happiness for yourself was helpful. Everyday remember happiness is a choice, so find more ways to create that happiness within yourself.

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  1. Slyepchenko A, Carvalho AF, Cha DS, Kasper S, McIntyre RS. Gut emotions – mechanisms of action of probiotics as novel therapeutic targets for depression and anxiety disorders. CNS Neurol Disord Drug Targets. 2014;13(10):1770-86. doi: 10.2174/1871527313666141130205242. PMID: 25470391.

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